The Hard Facts of Life

There are a few kinds of husbands that can really bring a woman to the brim of sufferings. First is the kind who find it's perfectly alright for him to marry a second wife, and then completely ignore the fact that the first wife whom he has spent more than half a century with, borne 10 children with him, accepted that his second family, took care of his daily needs till these days, AND STILL blame the first wife for creating dramas in the family. The result? Children with their spouses and EVEN THE MAID can bully this lady of 80 odd years old.

The second kind is what people called the perfect chauvinist, who thinks it is of law of nature that women should take care of ALL ASPECTS of the family, especially those concerning the kids. IT MADE MY BLOOD BOILS, when the pregnant wife had to tend to all 3 screaming kids, one of them puking, while the father, slept like a pig even when outsiders asked him to help out his PREGNANT WIFE -_-

The third kind is the kind who abandoned his wife at her most difficult time, or anytime at all. What happens to being a faithful partner in sickness and in health, in good times and in bad, and in joy as well as in sorrow?

As to describe the women, there are really 2 schools of thoughts. Silly? Or, steadfast?

And lastly, albeit alil irrelevant, My self-chant: I'm beautiful, I got nice legs and I am gonna get a decent job! J

failure

'And so rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.' JK Rowling

my pibbit

do u all know how cute it used to look like??

i'm such a lousy mommy

:(

Fightingg..

Today I woke up feeling good about myself. Although my case study is facing a lot of troubles now that I can't get the core element for the project, I'm happy that I finally got the heart to work for my own good.

I emailed my prof, emailed the Reflections for information, wrote out my CV, applied for a few jobs, asked ppl back for my money (although they refused to reply, it's ok, they owe me through CNY they will be poor forever!), and I found out a way(probably not very good way) to sell out my stocks!

Things are good, especially when he's happy J

Jobwoes

I'd always hear people say if they are ever given a chance to undo or change anything they want in the past, they would choose not to. I've always wonder really??? cos there are so many things I want to undo or change in the past. If I ever get the chance to change anything at all, I will. I will tell myself and tell him to work harder, to do more, or do make any amends at all that would prevent all this unnecessary stress and heartaches.

Things will look up, I pray.

Blogging bug strikes

Why is everybody so glooooooom lately???? If there's anyone who should be feeling gloooomy, it should be me right?! I haven't even gotten my CV out, oh wait CV is prolly secondary. I HAVEN'T actually have a clear idea of how I am gonna do my case study!!! -____-

Teacher said it's better to list out the things you wanna do so you will actually get it done.

1. Finish my poor bf's birthday present which was supposed to be sent Jan 9.
   
2. Write out my CV
   
3. Case study.casestudycasestudycasestudy!!!!!
   
4. SEND OUT SOME JOB APPLICATION! Everybody is going for job interviews -.-
   

Wow… only 4 in the list, can be done J

BKK awaits! Woots!

I'm still living on my 2 millions dream. How ar??

If I have 2 million dollars

Remember the dream that I mentioned earlier? it's actually about me striking 2 million dollars on Toto. I'm actually quite worried about mentioning it here because, you know what they say about things wont come true especially when you say it too many times? Well, nevermind. Since I'm too free and in the mood, I'll say it anyways. I've been thinking about it really seriously of how am I gonna spend that 2 million dollars. Lol. I can imagine u people who are reading this roll their eyes 720 degrees (Chew, 2009) ahhaaa… not funny I know. But here's the list.

1. I'm gonna give my parents 0.5 million for them to pay for my bro's tuition fee and do whatever they like.
   
2. I'm gonna buy a condo near ECP and hire an interior designer to design it just the way I like it (oh, maybe I'll do a special post just on that)
   
3. Well, as a real estate half professional, of course I'll buy a HDB to rent it out (Value investing)
   
4. Do a plastic surgery. (seriously)
   
5. IPL for some-of-u-might-know-where
   
6. Oh some money for my sister's shopaholic's crave.
   
7. Pay for her plastic surgery too. Lol
   
8. Our grad trip J maybe can stay Hilton everywhere we go.
   
9. My parent's Europe trip! Since I'd have gone to my grad trip alr, I'll plan a detailed one for them heh!
   
10. Oh, and of cos expand my business plan or Mer's bak chor mee stall. That I have a detailed plan too!
    

Hmm, I wonder if 2 million is enough. Oh, I should buy some shares too if I have some money left right? What will you do if you've got 2 million??