Some years ago, I remember being invited by a very special someone to church every Christmas. I've only been there once I think although I very much like to celebrate Christmas, my parents are extra paranoid about us going out at night. There's always problem when u're studying away from home. If you date a guy from home, you'd be separated most of the time, but will spend all the holiday together. On the other hand, if u date a guy who's not from home, then u'll be together most of the time, BUT not holidays. Past experience told me time need to be arranged very well, or things turn ugly. As a person who owns only a body and 24 hours a day, it's sometimes extremely taxing when there are loved ones-- bf, family and friends to juggle. You'd want very much for everyone of them to know they are important to you and that you really tried to spend more time with them, but u ended up getting from each of them complaints about your absence in certain points of time.

I failed once upon a time, I learnt, I amend. But it just doesn't work that way.